This is a pretty cool post from Dr. Levister on Black Voice News Online.

Choosing a Doctor You Can Talk To

Dear Dr. Levister:  I get frustrated when I have to see my doctor. He’s usually in a hurry. The communication is always one way. He speaks I listen. Is it time to find a new doctor?  D.C.

Dear D.C. How well you and your doctor talk to each other is one of the most important parts of getting good health care. Poor communications is the number one driving force behind race and sex based health disparities. Unfortunately, choosing a doctor you can talk to isn’t always easy. It takes time and effort on your part as well as your doctor’s.

In the past, the doctor typically took the lead and the patient followed. Today with the complexities and costs of health and managed care, a good doctor, patient relationship is more of a partnership with patient and doctor working together to solve medical problems and maintain the patient’s good health. Becoming a strong  advocate for your own health is essential.

If you are not at ease with the doctor you currently see, now may be the time to find a new doctor. The first step in good communication is finding a doctor with whom you can talk. Having a main doctor (often called a primary doctor) is one of the best ways to ensure your good health. He or she can help you make sound medical decisions and can communicate your health needs with other specialists and health care providers you may need.

Decide what you are looking for in a doctor. Identify several possible doctors. Consult reference sources. Learn more about the doctors you are considering. Make a choice. Don’t be shy about asking questions. Talking about your health means sharing information about how you feel both physically and emotionally. Knowing how to describe your symptoms, discuss treatments, and talk with specialists will help you become a better partner in your health care. Taking an active role in your  care puts the responsibility for good communication on both you and your doctor.